It is strange that the strangers we meet, being unaware, are targeted by our judgements. The mental state starts making conjectures and speculations on the inevitable but dim-witted grounds. The appearance counts sometime. Sometime it is the nationality. On few occasions the language spoken by a person is what that acts as a catalyst in such assumptions. The caste also goes through the process of judgement. The coming statement doesn’t make me a color based differentiator. Yes, skin color is also an entity that is exploited by these judgements.
These poor strangers don’t even get chance to be themselves and express themselves completely. The funny part of this guessing convene is that there exists a possibility of the stranger also being mental, I mean judgemental. Where are the roots to these issues? I am really, as in not just really but badly really, keen to know this.
Being mentally judgemental can be sometimes very firm that may be positive or negative, it totally depends. Because speculations lead to opinions, opinions lead to certain expectations, expectations lead to linkage or bondage, now if speculations were spot on then its fine linkages and bondages will be concrete but if they are not then arises the concerns of jubilations getting hindered. So why take unnecessary risks. I have realized that there are many instances where I was being mental. It is great, I met me again. Need to work on it. Need to be acute and stop being a Judgemental Mental.
Happy realization...to me...!!